Why child? Because you must. Because this is a pattern you need to break. This is your wound to cleanse.
You need to see people for all they are, not just the good stuff, not just in good times, not because they love you or claim to. You need to remove the fog you carry that is called unconditional love.
By fog we refer your pattern of ignoring, not seeing or allowing others to treat you less than you deserve, because you love them.
People take advantage of your love, your kindness, your generosity, your warm heartedness. They seek it and they take it, but when you ask for something in return they turn against you, walk away, ignore you, blame you, and reject and abandon you. You can be relied on, but where are they when you need them? Very, very few are there.
You child deserve abundantly more than you have allowed and your healing opportunity here in this situation is to honour yourself, own your truth.
Yes, be in integrity, grace and authenticity. Do not allow your hurt to create an angry response or to retreat into victimhood. Be honest, direct and speak with clarity. Draw the lines in the sand without intention to harm, which you will do with ease speaking from the heart because you are not a soul that intentionally harms.
This is your greatest test, we know that for we know the pain in your heart and the pieces all around you. Allow yourself to feel it, find gratitude within it, offer yourself forgiveness for not loving yourself as much as you loved XXX. It is all part of your growth child, yet we understand the pain you feel too.
You can see the truth, you’ve ignored a lot for awhile. But now you must speak it. You must honour yourself and own the truth. You are too easily swayed by emotion, yet amongst that you can see the truth of this situation. Why do you think it’s there in black and white – so you can see it and choose to continue the pattern or break it. You do not need to wear your heart on your sleeve to do it. You just need to be honest with yourself, and honest with others.
Set the boundaries, set the energetic tone and balance, and speak from your heart without emotion just the pure truth. The universe is your witness and it knows the truth. If you come from your heart with truth the universe will support you.
Now is the time to break the pattern, to trust in all you know, and to stop abandoning yourself to make others comfortable with your existence. You are a kind and loving soul child, imperfectly perfect but deeply loving and generous. Give that to yourself now child for you are all you truly have.
You understand energy and intention child so you know the importance of that which we speak to you. To clear the energy of self-sacrifice for unconditional love you need to rebalance the outward energy on others to the inward energy of self-love. You need to honour yourself enough to have the courage to speak the truth and have faith the universe is your witness and will support you as required for your growth and evolution.
You have the tools, you have the wisdom and you have the ability. You can shift this, cleanse it, clear it and break the pattern. All you’ve learned until this point has brought you to this place so now you need to step forward.
Be honest and do so without harm. All will be well child. You can and will do this with authenticity, integrity, grace and clear boundaries.
We love you.
In grace we are one.
