Child sometimes people are unable and unwilling to hear your truth. Triggered in their own stuff and unable to take personal responsibility they instead will reflect on you and distort what you have said based on their triggered state. Pushing the issue is pointless because they’re lacking the ability to see their role and their wounds surfacing as their response.
We understand your frustration and we understand you are understanding that this lesson remains to be understood and the wisdom growth extracted.
Self-Responsibility comes from the place of the adult, not the wounded child having a tantrum and running the show. Wisdom cannot be gained from the child response, only the adult willing to take responsibility with the understanding incidences do not occur in isolation for a single soul. They occur for the opportunity for growth for ALL souls involved. As souls are at different levels of growth their ability to see, understand and extract the wisdom will be different for each soul, unless the souls involved are energetically aligned in that moment.
That doesn’t mean a soul is more right than another, more superior than another, or better in anyway than another. It simply means the ability to fully understand and heal wounding is different. At that time.
When this occurs, as it will often when souls are committed to their personal growth, the key is to recognise this truth of alignment, personal responsibility and wounding. Being able to see the energetic dynamics and have compassionate understanding without making it personal is important. Another souls’ growth and stage of journey is not personal, or about anyone other than them.
Difficult e-motions such as frustration and anger that arise when the misalignment is recognised by a soul is also a growth opportunity for that soul. Uncomfortable body feelings tell the soul something doesn’t align within them. This is not always a trigger for a wound, it can also be a misalignment with their soul’s truth.
When another soul projects their perception to a soul for reflection it is their belief they are projecting. Sometimes the receiving soul will accept the belief projected as it aligns with their soul and is an opportunity for deeper reflection. They will accept responsibility for the growth opportunity the other soul has reflected to them. At other times the receiving soul will reject that belief because it doesn’t align and causes them discomfort within their body.
Only through reflection and willingness to sit with the projected belief of another can a soul distinguish whether they’re having the physical response because of a trigger, or because of a misalignment with their soul’s truth. This is discernment.
A soul’s truth is based on their values, not their beliefs. Beliefs are formed from the human experience as their soul journeys life. Values are the core of the soul and are the qualities of the soul which are unwavering, inflexible and key foundations the soul requires to be in harmony. Triggers are a response to wounding a soul carries that haven’t been healed and wisdom remains to be gained.
When a soul is triggered and unable to take responsibility for self-reflection the soul will project their discomfort onto another. How that soul receives the projection indicates whether it is a trigger or soul truth activation that arises for them.
A soul grows and gains wisdom not only from self-reflection and commitment to their healing and growth. Souls also grow from their interactions with others who are in their energetic field for that exact reason. They are fundamental to the journey, as is the other soul to theirs.
Mastering your own soul in those incidences is the key, not trying to have the other soul see your point of perspective. Each soul, in each incidence, is to self-reflect and take self-responsibility for their souls’ response – not that of the other. It is challenging when energetic misalignment occurs and physical discomfort arises, but it is not impossible to master.
Self is the key.
It is always the key.
